Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts

Sunday, December 7, 2014

What I Know for sure ......

What I know for sure is that I KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING FOR SURE.....

Take a minute and think of the one thing that you know with a shadow of doubt.
What is it ?
How did it become so concrete?

For me Passion is my driving force in life , I Love to live a life where spirit and passion collide to create waves of divinity.

2014 is nearing its end, and this has been such a rollercoaster , it amazes me how each year seems to speed up . Maybe I'm getting older.  (my knees sure feel that way.)
But all in All I have learned some meaningful lessons about life and self. Certain wisdoms come with age but the most important come from experiences and I have shared a few. My passion for life is overwhelming, I want to excel at everything (I know that sounds farfetched) But I Must Excel !!! And you should too.

What are your passions?
What is it that makes your heart jump out your chest with each thought ?
What are things that you must excel and succeed in?

I'm sure we all made promises to ourselves around this time last year , I am guilty of it 100 times over . And whether or not  those promises were kept is neither here nor there.
What matters is you are here and today you can keep those promises !
 seize the day !!! Carpe Diem !!! (did I say that right ) Don't Judge me lol

Now what I think I know for sure is this :

What I think I know for sure is that each time I go to sleep I am turning the page from whatever occurred during that day and when I wake, my page has been wiped clean and ready for me to doodle all over .

What I think I know for sure is that Life is not what I make it . Life is what it is supposed to be. Life is to be acted on ! Life is here , its up to me to live #>

What I think I know for sure is that living in fear is not living at all you are merely just existing ! Say it with me " I am a big brave DOG!!! ( corny I know but it is effective ) and thanks to my favorite  animated film this mantra is verbal gold . (Rugrats  in Paris ) remember no judging :)

What I think I know for sure is that We can succeed at anything ? And history has shown that to be true .

So as 2014 nears its end " I dare you to excel " Lets see what happens when passion and spirit collide in your life .

Because what I think I know for sure is that it will be Flawlessly Amazing !!!

"I Know for sure :Your Journey begins with a choice to get up, step out and live fully"
What I Know For Sure
by Oprah Winfrey




Sometimes all you need is a good book, a chai tea latte and a mind full of thoughts
As Always be Fit, Fine and Flawless




Thursday, September 11, 2014

Consistency Produces Results

Consistency : The ability to set a goal and do what is necessary to accomplish said goal

I am more than sure that I am not the only women in the world who is constantly setting goals , making To - Do list and rethinking my grand life plan over and over. AM I ?
 
As women we have managed to not only create man kind but we have also managed to run the world and quite fashionably I might add. So what is it that causes some of us to never reach our full potential ?
Does Oprah , Beyonce and other very successful women have the secret we are all looking for ?
Yes, these Queens are an inspiration.
Of course I would love to be a media mogul, who could strut a stage in 6 inch heels while flawlessly running the world one high hat at a time.
However for the 80% of women who are apart of the social norm ( Middle Class Women ) we are simply striving to complete our daily task list without forgetting lunch, an ear ring or a PTO meeting. And as much as we love Oprah and Bey I am more inspired by the average women who takes care of home and family.  The team mom who never skips a beat on this crazy journey we call womenhood.
 
Goal Setting  
 
I want to share with you my goals for September , then explain to you what I will be doing to stay consistent  and on course.
 
Consistency
Now goal setting is the easy part , the real work is putting your plan into action.
For example, I am aware that in order for me to be successful in fitness, I have to have someone to be accountable to. ( yes I am a trainer who pays for a trainer ) I find it more suitable for me to check in and stay on track with someone to answer to .
 
Sometimes accountability helps you remember exactly what you are doing all of this for. when I have to answer to my trainer , it reminds me of the big picture , my dream is to be a prominent Fitness advocate for women and mothers. and every time I skip a workout of sneak a sweet snack I am potentially pushing my dream further away.
 
Once you make something important enough , once it becomes like air then nothing should keep you from achieving your goal. Don't allow you become your own set back.
This Time make consistency one of your main goals.
If I can then You can !
Be Fit. Fine and Flawless
 
 

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

10 tips to get your workout working for you

 
Whether you’re new to a particular workout or a seasoned pro, these ten tips will help you get more out of your workout!

1.     Find your match. Everyone’s exercise preference is different. For some, rolling solo with some music jams and weights gets the endorphins a flowin,’ while others prefer the camaraderie and high energy of a class environment. Finding the right workout for you can literally make or break your fitness success!

2.     Don’t give up.  Starting anything new can be challenging–especially a new fitness regimen. However, consistency is key to seeing results. So in addition to the right kind of workout, be sure to find class times and/or a gym location that make sense for you and your schedule… and get moving.

3.     Get the right gear. Be comfortable, but always be safe. It’s easy to pick a shoe based on cuteness factor, but do some research on the type of shoe you need. If you run and tend to pronate, make sure you invest in a stability shoe. If dance-fitness is your thing, make sure you pick a shoe with low tread for easier pivoting and sliding.

4.     Keep moving. If you are new to a class that requires busting a move, don’t fret. Not everyone knows every step in his or her first class (or second, or third…). The key is to move, even if it’s improvising. A key rule in a Zumba® class is that there really are no mistakes, only “accidental solos.”

5.     Bring a friend. Everyone needs a workout partner. Bringing a friend (or friends) not only motivates you to show up, but keeps you on your game. Surround yourself with people who have similar fitness goals and interests!

6.     Let go. The best advice is the simplest. Forget the stress of the day and enjoy this special “me time.” Don’t respond to emails or text messages. In fact, leave your phone in your gym bag, if possible, so you can fully engage.

7.     Eat Right. You wouldn’t drive your car at 90 miles per hour with an empty gas tank, would you? Make sure that you are properly fueled for your workout. There is a lot of information available. Check a credible source for proper pre-workout and post-workout nutrition info.

8.     Hydrate. Proper hydration is key for many reasons. H2O regulates your body temperature, lubricates your joints and is important for overall energy and health. It’s important to hydrate before, after and during a workout!

9.     Stretch it out. Stretching is key after any workout. Some classes include a cool-down at the end, but an additional 5-10 minutes on your own could make a difference in reducing next day soreness and increasing flexibility!

10. Work hard, but don’t overdo it. Find a workout schedule that works for you and stick to it. It’s important to also remember that your body needs rest. Muscles need time to recover, so make sure you aren’t overdoing it.
 
 
 
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Thursday, July 24, 2014

Mediate . Relax. Repeat !


Meditation has come into a modern day transformation by knocking its hippy stereotype and becoming more commonly accepted in todays' world. Mediation has been scientifically proven to reduce stress, help control appetite and metabolism levels ( yes shocking but true ) and overall rate of happiness.

Meditation is not difficult, but like all skills it will take time and practice. It is all about developing the ability to produce a meditative, very relax state in a small amount of time. Meditation can be bought on through several practices such as,
1. Mindfulness : ‘being present’, letting your mind run, and accepting whatever thoughts come up, while practicing detachment from each thought.
2. Zazen: is the generic term for seated meditation in the Buddhist tradition, but in the modern Zen tradition, it is often referred to as ‘just sitting’. It is a minimal kind of meditation, done for long periods of time
3.Guided visualization: is a popular form of meditation that involves concentration upon an image or imaginary environment. It is usually done while listening to a recording.
 
Tips on Meditation
 
1. Find a quiet place
2.Breathe Deeply
3. Check In
(settle into your body by observing your posture, notice sensations where your body touches the floor or chair )
4. Allow your mind to be free (consider the why )
5. Take this relaxed state with you through out your day

Check out this quick tutorial for proper mediation
 


Will Mediation change your life? Yes ! Will it aide in a more stress free life ? YES! Can Meditation help boost your Immune System ? Yes and Bonus Mediation has been proven to heighten brain function in the area that controls Appetite ! 
 
5-20 minutes A day to be healthier , less stressed and more Fit !!!
 
Be Fit. Fine and Flawless 


Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The Buck Stops Here

Total health has a lot to do with more than just your physical looks or medical clearance. It is a combination of physical , mental or emotional and spiritual health. I often focus on physical health, with blog post and my job being personal training, however I would like to bring something to the forefront .
Emotional Health
Women, we were created as survivors and nurtures. But as a whole we are forgetting to nurture ourselves, to love ourselves , to have self worth that is greater than all the images we are constantly being judged against.
People who are emotionally healthy are in control of their emotions and their behavior. They are able to handle life's challenges, build strong relationships, and recover from setbacks. But just as it requires effort to build or maintain physical health, so it is with mental and emotional health.
(HelpGuide.org)
 
 

People who are mentally and emotionally healthy have:

  • A sense of contentment.
  • A zest for living and the ability to laugh and have fun.
  • The ability to deal with stress and bounce back from adversity.
  • A sense of meaning and purpose, in both their activities and their relationships.
  • The flexibility to learn new things and adapt to change.
  • A balance between work and play, rest and activity, etc.
  • The ability to build and maintain fulfilling relationships.
  • Self-confidence and high self-esteem.


 
 
 
In the Black community women are told to be strong, we are expected to deal with issues , hurts and pain and not say a word. Outlets for frustration are seen as a weakness. Speaking about issues you are having can even be seen as taboo. Why is this a trend ? or should I say Generational Curse ? Were we preconditioned to deal with hardships internally? Or do we chose to put our health on the back burner to keep up with image?
 
No matter the source, It is time to drop the mask and bare your true feelings. If you are hurting talk about it, if you are in an unsafe situation get out and seek help.
Life is not meant to be handled alone. And it is up to the women of our community to stand together , To build each other up and to help each other Grow.
 
Love and Light
Chyana Hall
Flawless Fitness

Friday, July 11, 2014

Women: Simply Complicated



Look at the diagram above. Now decide which body type are you.
Truth is 8 out of 1o women will chose a body type bigger than what they actually are. This is because we judge what we already have against the body type we desire.
 For Example , My body type is naturally "Sex Toy"  , Yes I am satisfied with the title but my goal is "Athletic".
In a perfect world I would be an Athletic Sex Toy . A body rocking bedroom beast.
 
Honestly as  women we go through days were we feel like walruses stranded on the beach
And other days we are sexy vixens ready to conquer the world. Confidence !
Your perception of your body is more mental than physical.
 when you feel Beautiful you look Beautiful.
It can be very simple !
Try this Exercise
Get in front of a mirror....okay now strike a pose .
How do you feel about yourself right now ?
Did you just wake up ?
Are you not having a good day ?
Is it that time of the month ( screw you mother nature ) ?

Now what is one thing you can do to make yourself feel better ?

Here is my remedy when I just not feeling like the Sexy Queen that I am:

1. Clean my room ( a clean room and freshly washed sheets on my bed  are like heaven )

2. Take a shower ( lights off, candle light with Corrine bailey Rae playing thru my speakers= perfection)  And I am  not talking just a run of the mill shower oh no I'm talking about deep cleaning my dreads, exfoliating my face and riding every body part of hair. Yes I called it the Imperial Shower.

3. I throw on my favorite Sweat pants ( Victoria Secret Pink Boyfriend fit sweats ) And White Tank top ( has to be the Hands A-shirt ) yes I know its detailed but it works

4. I collapse into my bed ( which has a mattress kissed by angels ) and I drown myself in my favorite TV Show ( usually OITNB, Scandal ,Will and Grace or Everybody loves Raymond)

5. If its really a bad day then out comes the kindle and I am whisked away into my favorite Novel ( The five people you meet in Heaven , 50 Shades of Grey  or The Travelers Guide )
 
Sure this may sound like a serious deed but confidence , comfort and attitude contribute to your overall health. I love myself enough to not allow my bad moment , to turn into a bad day or bad week.
Your body type is yours and Most of us are just born with it, So own it and take care of it the best way you can . By making sure you are emotionally and Physically healthy .
 

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