Women: Simply Complicated

Look at the diagram above. Now decide which body type are you.

Truth is 8 out of 1o women will chose a body type bigger than what they actually are. This is because we judge what we already have against the body type we desire.
 For Example , My body type is naturally "Sex Toy"  , Yes I am satisfied with the title but my goal is "Athletic".
In a perfect world I would be an Athletic Sex Toy . A body rocking bedroom beast.

 

Honestly as  women we go through days were we feel like walruses stranded on the beach
And other days we are sexy vixens ready to conquer the world. Confidence !
Your perception of your body is more mental than physical.
 when you feel Beautiful you look Beautiful.

It can be very simple !
Try this Exercise
Get in front of a mirror....okay now strike a pose .
How do you feel about yourself right now ?
Did you just wake up ?
Are you not having a good day ?
Is it that time of the month ( screw you mother nature ) ?

Now what is one thing you can do to make yourself feel better ?

Here is my remedy when I just not feeling like the Sexy Queen that I am:

1. Clean my room ( a clean room and freshly washed sheets on my bed  are like heaven )

2. Take a shower ( lights off, candle light with Corrine bailey Rae playing thru my speakers= perfection)  And I am  not talking just a run of the mill shower oh no I'm talking about deep cleaning my dreads, exfoliating my face and riding every body part of hair. Yes I called it the Imperial Shower.

3. I throw on my favorite Sweat pants ( Victoria Secret Pink Boyfriend fit sweats ) And White Tank top ( has to be the Hands A-shirt ) yes I know its detailed but it works

4. I collapse into my bed ( which has a mattress kissed by angels ) and I drown myself in my favorite TV Show ( usually OITNB, Scandal ,Will and Grace or Everybody loves Raymond)

5. If its really a bad day then out comes the kindle and I am whisked away into my favorite Novel ( The five people you meet in Heaven , 50 Shades of Grey  or The Travelers Guide )

 

Sure this may sound like a serious deed but confidence , comfort and attitude contribute to your overall health. I love myself enough to not allow my bad moment , to turn into a bad day or bad week.

Your body type is yours and Most of us are just born with it, So own it and take care of it the best way you can . By making sure you are emotionally and Physically healthy .

 

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what is more fun than exercise? SEX!!!

Sex is Survival of the Fittest !

 Greatness at its peak of Glory !!

 Sex is for the Brave and Fit......

 

 

Now don't get me wrong all people have sex and I am sure enjoyable sex. But in my experience , Fitter people have better Sex.  My theory is that although it is a proven fact that during sex you burn Calories and release endorphins that can fight against Depression, SEX in it self can be filled with workout inspired positions that tone and tighten the areas women care about the most.
 I call these the H.A.B.I.T  areas ... Hips, Abs, Butt, Thighs, Stomach.

Bad HABITS... (wink. wink)
(yes the I doesn't have a meaning it just sounds funny to say HABTS)

A study revealed that 88 percent of women who exercised fives times per week rated themselves as above average in the bed. Lets point out some obvious reasons here ;
Cardio = Stamina
Weights = Strength
Sex requires Stamina and Strength
Well "Good SEX" does

Now by working on all the right muscles you will boost your energy levels, build core strength ( Thrusting Power ) and become more Flexible ( Perfect Positioning ) . Sex may never equal to  a zumba class or running a marathon but that fact is that your body has over 600 muscles and during sex your body is contracting them all. yes all 600 +, from the toe curl to the eye twitch your body is working hard while being worked out .

Key Factor : Effort = Calories

You may not be the next Nikko and MiMi . You may never play around with positions or bring in new tricks, but as long as you are putting in some effort in whatever you are doing rest assure you are burning calories.

 I am going help you ladies out  with a few positions that I am sure will keep help you keep it tight, abs and all. 

 

 

 

Saddle up Cowgirl

     With a standard cowgirl position, the lower part of the woman's

 legs are braced on the bed or floor, which will engage her butt and core.

Modifying the cowgirl position can work additional muscle groups.

To get more of an intense workout come up on your feet (in a squat position) and you will be working all butt, legs and hips. taken it even further and lean onto your feet while balancing on your hands and now you are working upper and lower body.

For the fellas ...Standing
Come on ladies share the wealth and let him workout with you.
The standing position will have you both toned in no time.
This I can promise!!!
Standing can be a little difficult and a bit freighting but trusting yourself and partner is key.
when facing each other you will use your core and upper legs, if you stand on one leg those muscles will help you to stay upright the core keeps you balanced.  When both legs are wrapped around his waist, he is essentially doing a full body press( excellent for total body muscle contraction ) but your arms are holding you in place.
Honestly regardless of how he contorts you into this position you will need stamina to remain standing.


London Bridges
"This pose is not for the Weak"

With the bridge, the woman is facing upward, using all four limbs to hold her body weight off the bed. Many sex experts agree that this pose is not for the weak, and try at your own willingness.
And as one so brilliantly put it : "Oh, God, she better be yoga-ing five days a week or training as a gymnast."
You have to stabilize yourself against his thrust , and
Even if you pile a tower of pillows under your back to help support your weight, you'll still definitely be working your Butt
and inner-thigh muscles.
This position will work it all out biceps, triceps, abs, glutes, quads, calves.
And Unless you are  really strong, Do not expect to hold this position for to long.
Sex Expert Berman says, "If you're going from cowgirl to this position, your butt will start burning after five minutes."

Don't be afraid to get creative with your Sexercising ! Its all about trust, comfort and enjoyment. Any man will applaud his lady for working hard on her body in and out of the bedroom.  we all like to look at something Nice ! Try these positions at home; which I'm sure most of readers have already beat us to the punch and see what good it does for those
H.A.B.I.T areas .

 

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